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The
Clothing Chronicles
May 3, 2007, #274
FashionForRealWomen.com
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In This Issue:
Message
From Diana
Feature
Article: Accessories
That Work At Work
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MESSAGE FROM DIANA
There's
nothing like the prospect of warm weather and losing layers to get
people to really start thinking about their skin. In fact, I've
gotten SO many questions about skin care and makeup in recent weeks
that I've just about decided to look at the topic in-depth, in either
an ebook or tele-seminar format. I'll let you know what I decide in
the next week or so --
The big
response from last week's article about the "ABC's of Business Dress"
http://www.theclothingchronicles.com/archives/273-04262007.htm
caught me by
surprise. I had lots of people write to say how appalled they are by
what some people consider business attire these days, from
pajama-like clothes to shorts and flip flops. One woman asked if they
even sold hosiery any more, since no one seems to be wearing it where
she lives or works (the answer is yes, hosiery sells billions every year).
So how do you
dress for your industry when no one around you seems to have a clue?
By cracking a few books, learning what's proven to work in your
industry, and following the guidelines.
"Learning
and leadership go hand-in-hand," a mentor once told me.
"Readers are leaders."
So keep
reading as we continue our "what to wear to work" theme to
find out what accessories work -- and don't work - in the workplace.
Enjoy!
Diana
diana@fashionforrealwomen.com
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FEATURE ARTICLE
Accessories
That Work At Work
Not long ago,
I was in a meeting with a young, professionally-dressed woman who had
long pink fingernails and a heavy charm bracelet. I don't remember
her name or what she wore, but I do remember the nails and the
bracelet. How could I not? They captured my attention the instant I
sat down and held it from then on out.
Whenever she
spoke, often gesturing wildly with her hands, my thoughts strayed
from her words to her hands. Could she type with those nails? How
much time and money did she spend on them? And that bracelet! The
constant jingling began to drive me nuts.
Apparently I
wasn't the only one. After a while, the leader of the group, a
no-nonsense man in his fifties, demanded that she "&ldots;take
that @$%^ thing off" so he could hear himself think.
Embarrassed, she unfastened the bracelet and put it on her notepad,
then sat there dejectedly for the rest of the meeting, quietly
playing with the charms.
It was a
sobering reminder of just how easily a wrong choice can tip a
situation. Before the outburst, she'd participated fully in the
discussion. Afterwards, she sat quietly, her feelings obviously hurt.
All because of that darn bracelet.
Now while it
was an awkward incident, at least she had someone tell there was a
problem. Most people don't get that chance. They go about their
business, turning off prospects right and left, then wonder what went
wrong when they lose promotions, accounts, or leadership opportunities.
Don't let that
happen to you. Instead, think carefully about the accessories you
wear so that you send the appropriate message every time you sit down
to conduct business. Here are some guidelines to consider:
Makeup
Makeup styles,
like clothing styles, change seasonally, so keeping up with trends
will make you look current and well-groomed. All thumbs when it comes
to makeup application? Try just highlighting your best feature, like
beautiful skin, great eyes, supple lips, or high cheekbones and don't
stress about the rest.
Nails
Fingernails
should be of even length and nicely maintained. Avoid overly-long
styles, particularly if you routinely handle food, touch patients, or
use a keyboard or adding machine in your line of work, and keep the
colors business-like: clear, neutral, or red.
Jewelry
Jewelry should
complement your ensemble, never detract from it. Keep pieces in the
same mood as your clothing and scale them to your body size. Avoid
cutesy, gaudy, and noisy pieces, like that young woman in the story above.
Handbags
Handbags
should also be in the same mood as your clothing, preferably of high
quality and well maintained. If you stick with a handful of colors in
your business wardrobe, one neutral-colored bag should suffice. Carry
a lot of business papers to and from work? Use a briefcase or
business-like tote to carry papers and tuck a small handbag inside.
Don't carry two bags; you don't want that pack mule look.
Hosiery
Hosiery
creates a barrier and sets a formal tone and as such, is still
required in many traditional businesses around the world. Opt for
flesh colored (or sheer black if you're wearing dark colors) for
everyday use; keep the heavily opaque, patterned, or colored pieces
for weekends (unless you work in a creative industry, like fashion).
Wearing no hosiery is fashionable right now, but it's also informal;
wear hosiery if you want formality.
Shoes
Closed-toe
shoes are formal and offer protection in the workplace. Open-toe
shoes are casual, flirtatious, and fun. While closed-toe shoes can
work well in many industries, open-toe shoes are limited in their
practicality (safety, weather, etc.). Opt for what makes sense in
your situation.
Accessories
are often considered the "icing on the cake" when dressing,
but in reality, they can make or break your look. As with business
attire, the "ABC's of Business Dress" extend to accessories
as well: make them APPROPRIATE to your industry and line of work, use
them to set BOUNDARIES with proper coverage, and be CONSISTENT with
them to set the tone for your business wear. It's a simple recipe for success.
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Until next time,
Diana Pemberton-Sikes
diana@fashionforrealwomen.com
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